Tuesday, February 9, 2016

V-Day--It's Here Again

Whether you love it or hate it, Valentine's Day is here again.  No matter where you go, there are hearts, roses, chocolates, and teddy bears all around.  You may even start to think something's wrong with your vision because the only colors you see are red and pink.

I probably don't have to offer suggestions on gifts or things to do since we're bombarded with advertisements everywhere, but I thought it would be interesting to go outside the box and see how Valentine's Day is celebrated in other parts of the world.  Some traditions are a bit different from those in the U.S., and if you're thinking of doing something new with your sweetie, you might get a few ideas.  For example:
  • Austria--Men give their loved ones bouquets of flowers. 
  • Denmark--Pressed white snowdrop flowers are exchanged.
  • Italy--Romantic dinners and an exchange of gifts are the norm.
  • Philippines--Mass wedding ceremonies are performed.
  • South Africa--Women pin the names of their loved ones on their sleeves.
  • South Korea--Women give men chocolates, candies, and flowers (men reciprocate on March 14).
  • Taiwan--Men give women chocolates, candies, and flowers (women reciprocate on March 14).
If you want to learn more about how other countries celebrate V-Day, check out the following websites:

10 Strange and Wonderful Valentine's Day Traditions from Around the World

10 Valentine's Day Traditions All Around the World

Valentine's Day Around the World

Wishing you a Happy Valentine's Day from the perch.


Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Hula in the Coola!

It's gloomy and cold, so why not be bold?  Don't worry about moolah.  Come Hula in the Coola!

What is Hula in the Coola, you ask?  It's a holiday at the beginning of February to make us think of warmer weather when we're getting tired of winter.  Traditionally, people living in northern states ditch their coats, put on grass skirts, and go outside to hula.  Crazy, but fun.

We're going to celebrate Hula in the Coola in the library this coming February 2 for anyone interested (and I hope that will be many of you!).  Don't worry, we'll stay nice and toasty warm indoors, but we WILL be doing the hula...with a hula hoop!  If you can hula hoop for 2 minutes straight, we'll give you a free book bag.  You read that right--a FREE book bag!  And you can even ask to see your very own perch librarian hula hoop on demand.  I'm not joking.

We're doing Hula in the Coola not only to have some fun in the library, but also to promote Family Fitness Month on the base.  And in case you didn't know, hooping (as hula hooping is more commonly known) is a legitimate exercise that can burn 7 calories a minute.  That's 420 calories an hour!  Who would have thought that doing something we loved as kids is actually good for us as adults?  Even celebrities like Kelly Osbourne, Zooey Deschanel, and Michelle Obama hoop.

So, come on over to the library on Tuesday, February 2 to Hula in the Coola for Family Fitness!  Do some hooping, get a book bag, and have fun!

Your truly hooping it up at the perch.


Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Let's Get Personal

Now that the holidays are over, it's time to breathe a collective sigh of relief.  Even though they're a time of happiness, they're also a time of stress.  We anticipate them, plan for them, and put so much effort into them...or do we?

Christmas cards are an inevitable part of the merrymaking experience, but I was disappointed to receive a number that had not one ink mark made by a human hand.  Not a stray dot.  What I got were mass-produced photo cards--friends and relatives wearing frozen smiles with generic, non-personal greetings.  Even the return addresses on the envelopes were printed on stickers along with the recipient's address.  Sadly, the practice of sending Christmas cards has been reduced to stuffing envelopes and slapping on stickers.

In my opinion, a non-personalized Christmas card is just a step better than sending no card at all.  The message I get is, "I don't have time to send Christmas cards and I don't really have time for you."  I understand that everyone's life is busy, but in an age when Christmas is often the only time we connect with some people, shouldn't we take a moment to make that connection count?

I had roughly 40 Christmas cards to send, and I handwrote wishes in each one of them.  I also handwrote the addresses and my return address on every envelope.  I wanted the receivers of my cards to know that I took a few minutes of my time to think about them and to give them a small piece of myself.  I may not have sent all my cards out at once (I wrote them throughout the course of a week), but I gave each person something that no printer can create.

Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but if you want to make next year's Christmas cards personal and magical, take out a pen and start writing them.  Plan ahead and start early.  I'll bet the people receiving them will stop to take a look and appreciate the treasure in their hands.  Never underestimate the power of the pen and a human touch.

Personally yours from the perch.

 personalized-christmas-cards-from-kids-hallmark

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Got spirit?

Unless you're a hermit living off the grid in a cave without a calendar, I'm sure you're aware we're in the middle of the holiday season.  Yup, it's that most wonderful time of the year when you see lights and ho-ho-ho everywhere you go.

If you're in the holiday spirit and want to get some more, or if you're in a bah humbug mood and need help getting out of it, here are some books, DVDs, and CDs that are sure to warm your heart:

Christmas
  • The Mistletoe Promise by Richard Paul Evans
  • Mr. Miracle by Debbie Macomber
  • The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg 
  • Scaredy Squirrel Prepares for Christmas by Melanie Watt
  • The Christmas Song (CD) Nat King Cole
  • Noel (CD) Josh Groban
  • 12 Songs of Christmas (CD) Etta James
  • A Charlie Brown Christmas (DVD)
  • It's a Wonderful Life (DVD)
  • Love, Actually (DVD)
Hanukkah
  • The Story of Hanukkah by David A. Adler
  • One Candle by Eve Bunting 
  • Candlelight for Rebecca by Jacqueline Dembar Greene
  • Zigazak!  A Magical Hanukkah Night by Eric A. Kimmel
  • Elijah's Angel by Michael J. Rosen
  • Hanukkah! by Roni Schotter
  • Let's Make Latkes by Sally Springer
  • Pearl's Eight Days of Chanukah by Jane Breskin Zalben
Kwanzaa
  • Kwanzaa Karamu by April A. Brady
  • K is for Kwanzaa by Juwanda G. Ford
  • It's Kwanzaa Time by Linda Goss
  • My First Kwanzaa by Karen Katz
  • Kwanzaa by Cedric McClester

The library has more materials than the ones listed above, so come on over and check them out!  And a Happy Chrismahanukkwanzakah to all!

With warm holiday wishes from the perch.


Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Celebration Time!

Guess what?  November is birthday month for your very own perch librarian!  Yay!  Happy Birthday to yours truly!  I'm a planner to the point of being almost annoyingly organized (my husband continues to be surprised that I usually have our next 3 weekends planned), and my birthday is no exception.  I've been waiting to go to one of my favorite comfy-cozy restaurants, and then I discovered that the restaurant will be closed for the entire month of November while it moves to a different location...ackkkkk!!!!

I needed to re-plan my birthday plans, and that got me thinking--a lot of people besides me probably wonder what to do on their special day.  So I got on the Internet to explore what people do on their birthdays.  The ideas are interesting--thanking your parents, taking the day off from work, and having the usual party, among others.  Maybe you'll get some ideas for your own birthday or the birthday of someone near and dear in your life.

Check out some of the following websites (the names say it all):

The possibilities of what you can do on your birthday are endless, but the best is doing whatever makes you happy.  For myself, that means spending the morning at the spa soaking my cares away in the hot tub followed by dinner in the evening with my husband at my favorite Ethiopian restaurant.

Whenever your birthday may be, wishing you a wonderful day of bliss from the perch.


Friday, October 23, 2015

Put Your Spooky On!

Here we go again.  It's that time when we feel festive, put up decorations, and don we now our gay apparel.  Yay for the most wonderful time of the year--Halloween!  (What did you think I was talking about?)

Both kids AND adults are excited about stringing the faux spider webs and choosing costumes.  What is it about dressing up in a kooky costume and acting weird that does it for so many people?  It's the candy!  I don't know about you, but when I was a kid, trick-or-treating was a chance to sample different kinds of candy to find out which ones were the good ones to buy.  My father, of course, was only too happy to assist me in this all important task.

Well, maybe Halloween isn't just about the candy.  Maybe it's about all those creepy books and movies that give you goosebumps (not necessarily the kind by R. L. Stine).  Washington Irving's The Legend of Sleepy Hollow is my all time favorite Halloween story.  With a Headless Horseman and a great chase in an eerie town, it keeps your eyes glued to the page and your heart racing.  Then there's The Others, the movie with Nicole Kidman, that keeps you sitting at the edge of your seat with each twist and turn of the plot.  What you think is real isn't, and what you think isn't real...is!  Whoa!

Or is Halloween mainly about the parties, like the one the library's having next week on Thursday, October 29 at 6 p.m.?  Maybe it's a Not-So-Scary Halloween Party for the smaller kids, but that doesn't mean the bigger kids and the kidults can't have fun as well.  There are crafts and candy and storytime and candy and games and candy.  Did I mention there's candy?  We'll also have fruit and juice because we gotta have some healthy things, too, you know.

Perhaps all the bubble, bubble, toil and trouble of Halloween boils down to simple, old fashioned fun.  No matter our age, we just want to have a good time.  So put on your costume, get your treats, and forego the tricks.  Read some good books, watch some good movies, and have fun at the Halloween party.  Put your spooky on!

Wishing you a ghoulish Halloween from the perch.


Thursday, October 8, 2015

Goonight, Twilight

I'll start by saying that I'm a perch librarian who actually likes Stephenie Meyer's Twilight and the succeeding books in the series (it was difficult keeping my suspension of disbelief while reading Breaking Dawn with its excessive supernatural elements, but that's another story).  Sure, the writing style is mediocre.  True, you could argue (as many already have) that the relationship between the book's two lovers is unhealthy in its obsessiveness.  Putting those elements aside, though, what attracts so many to Twilight is its focus on the purity of first love and the journey through it.

I realize that nowadays when a book or a movie is so successful and so well loved, it's quite natural for publishers and studios to develop a sequel.  Sometimes this can be a good idea, but more often than not, the author or director is just trying to milk more out of a dry cow.  That's what Meyer, unfortunately, seems to be doing with her latest venture.

To do something special for the 10th anniversary of the publication of her book, Meyer has "reimagined" Twilight by telling the story of a teenaged boy who falls in love with a vampire girl in a book entitled Life and Death.  It's a gender-bender, but the story is really the same as the original Twilight, even down to the same sentences at times.  You have to wonder whether Meyer just used the "Find" and "Replace" features on her word processor to do a quick "rewrite."

After reading the first chapter of Life and Death, I have no desire to read more.  It's too weird to have Beau, the male "Bella," think about how he would have to share one bathroom in the Forks house with Charlie (Charlie and Renee are about the only characters to stay the same) and how Renee resisted him trying to organize her things in the Phoenix house bathroom.  Come on now--would a teenaged boy seriously think about organizing his mother's toiletries or caring that he shared a bathroom?  Not likely, if you ask me.

I suppose the die hard Twilight fans will flock to Life and Death like flies to excrement, and I'm sure Meyer will make millions off this book as she did from her others.  In my opinion, I think she would have done a better job completing Midnight Sun, the Twilight story retold from Edward's perspective (Meyer stopped work on that novel after half of it was leaked on the Internet).  In that unfinished book, she not only gave readers a better understanding of Edward, but also enriched the story in a tasteful, interesting way.  Life and Death, sadly, comes across as poorly thought out fan fiction, confirming my belief that sequels aren't always a good idea.  A dry cow should be left alone.

My very humble 2 cents from the perch.